Office of the Prosecuting Attorney of Elkhart County

Child Abuse

What You Should Know About child Abuse

What is Child Abuse?

Child abuse is when and adult hurts a child and it is not by accident. There are 4 kinds of child abuse:

Physical Abuse - Physical abuse is when an adult hurts you by hitting or beating you.

Emotional Abuse - Emotional abuse is when an adult says things that make you feel like a bad person, or make you feel worthless.

Neglect - neglect is when an adult fails to provide you with food, shelter, clothing, or medical attention.

Sexual Abuse - Is when an adult touches the private parts of your body or has you touch the private parts of his or her body. Everyone likes to be hugged or touched by people who love us, but some kinds of touching are not proper behavior. If you are not sure what is a good touch and what is a bad touch, talk to an adult you trust about it.

**Even if you have done something bad, that does not make it alright for an adult to intentionally hurt you.

Is it my fault if I am abused?

No. Some children blame themselves, but it is the adult who must be blamed. Adults might tell you that it is your fault. No matter what, if you are abused, it is never your fault.

How can I stop someone from abusing me?

The best way to stop abuse is to talk about it. Child abuse is against the law. If the abuse only happened once or seems like it is over, it is important to tell someone you trust who can help you.

Child abusers may tell kids that something bad will happen if they ever tell anyone. If the abuser is a family member, children may be afraid the family will break apart if they tell the secret. Remember, the way to stop abuse is to tell someone. You should not keep it a secret.

What will happen to my abuser if I tell?

The abuser may get the kind of help he or she needs to stop hurting children. A person who abuses children needs help. Most abusers need special counseling. If the abuser is someone in your family, you may see less of him or her for a while. Because it is against the law some abusers may go to jail. If this happens it is not your fault.

What if I know someone who I suspect may be abused?

If you know that a child is being abused, tell someone about the abuse like a parent, teacher, or another family member. Adults are obligated to report information to the proper authorities under Indiana Law. The police or child protective services should be called to investigate the situation. No child deserves to be abused.

Abuse of a child is a horrible thing to have to endure, both for the child and for the family. Child Abuse Prevention Services is available to assist families that have found themselves in this situation. Child Abuse Prevention Services (CAPS) has many programs available, including monitoring court-ordered supervised visits. Visit the CAPS website for more information.

C.A.P.S. memorial ceremony remembering children who died at the hands of abusers.